Do you find yourself communicating differently with people from different groups and cultures?
In some regards I do. When I interact with children i crouch down to their eye level so that they feel equal, so to speak and i discuss things with them differently then I would adults. I do not interact with a lot of diverse groups or individuals. I am a nanny so I pretty much just interact with the child and parents. When i went on a date last weekend i notice that i interact and communicate differently with him then other dates or individuals. He uses proper English and is an (old school) gentleman. Its quite interesting and cute and refreshing. I try to be more polite and proper like him and not use slang words.
First off I have to respect the individuals I interact with and listen to what they say. If I do not really hear them and empathize with what they say how can I not only develop a strong relationship but effectively communicate.
I need to be open-minded to other cultures, their traditions. communication differences, body language signs and social etiquette.
Lastly I think i is extremely beneficial for me to start from now implementing Milton Bennett “Platinum Rule”: “Do to others as they themselves would like to be treated” in every interaction I have.
It is interesting how we adapt our communication style to different groups. As you, I always am on the child's level. With colleagues, I tend to use my ECE jargon as it is familiar, etc. Being open minded to other cultures is an important consideration.
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Yeah someone who know how to talk with children! I cannot tell you how many times last year when we did our observation for child development the teacher would tower over the child or talk coarsely to them, this while I am observing. Thank you for being a role model for your co-workers.
ReplyDeletethanks guys!!
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